It has occurred to me that there are two key elements that go hand and hand for any success in finding a relationship: patience and persistence. We live in a world filled with instant gratification.
Tv ads bombard us with the promise of all sorts of instantaneous results.
However, when it comes to things as important as finding somebody special, we tend to lose focus and forget it is a process that takes some time.
So how can one benefit from
patience? How does persistence pay off?
In all important processes, there is a learning curve in finding out what works and what doesn’t. It is not a perfect process and can be fraught with a little amount of failures. It gets more and more personal when we think of matters of the heart.
And yet those who do succeed tend to discount those moments of failure. Rather than asking why me, ask the question, “How can I make this work better?”
If you wonder about the aspects of those things you have learned and become good at, there was a learning curve.
You did not give up.
You succeeded in steps, and with those steps came the confidence that makes the motion to go forward.
When things don’t work out in the right way, it is good to reevaluate and move forward. We may not like those rejection moments. However, those moments are what brings us to where we want to be.
Patience and persistence are our two allies in searching for somebody special. It is not an easy way, but one that can come with great rewards.
If you are not receiving the results you are looking for, gather a team of experts who know you best: family members and friends. Ask for some advice and consider all ideas. Half the fun of getting to your destination in life is the journey you decide on to take.
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