Do you wanna attract the man of your dreams, yet afraid of appearing desperate in front of him?
Subtlety is vital! Here are 15 steps to make him want you in no time!
It’s hard being a girl. Even in today’s world, you simply can’t be the one courting the man.
However, you can be the one who makes the first move, but it will generally build a dynamic that is simply not sustainable in the long run.
One day, you’ll want your guy to really be the one to chase after you and beg for your affection.
Subtle tried and tested steps you can attract a man:
The ideal situation is that he falls madly in love with you and does everything to win your heart. But if that seems very difficult right now, don’t feel helpless.
There are many different ways you can attract the guy you adore, so he’ll pursue you and try to woo you even if you don’t make it very obvious that you like him already.
1. Try to hold eye contact a few seconds longer.
This one is the oldest but effective trick in the book. If you hold your stare longer than usual, you will send a sexy vibe to the guy you’re staring at.
Holding eye contact will help you appear more confident, and it could give the other individual the impression that you’re interested in him, which will make him consider liking you back.
It’s the most obvious body language cue that indicates, “I think you’re hot.”
2. Always laugh at his jokes.
Men love their egos most and there’s no best way to do than by laughing at his jokes. You don’t have to force yourself, because if you really like this guy, it’s maybe effortless for you to ride with his sense of humor.
3. Always wear good perfume.
The fragrance is very powerful. When somebody walks by and their perfume wafts to our nose, our senses awaken just like the Axe commercials.
Scent can stimulate parts of our brain directly connected to our sexual desire.
Put on some more sprays minutes before you approach the man you’re crushing, and he might begin noticing you in a romantic or sexual manner.
4. Call him by his name directly.
As you know, your name is the sweetest sound. If you just met this guy and you’re attracted to him, make sure you call him by his name. Instead of “hey,” try to say “Hey, Grant.”
It instantly creates intimacy in mind and he’ll have warm feelings for you. But, don’t overdo it, though, or you’ll sound like a salesperson.
5. Always be yourself.
Yeah! I know, it’s vital to leave some mystery for your man to get curious about you, but you make sure the self you’re showing him is the real side of yours.
Show your real, vulnerable, awkward side by being honest to him.
In today’s world, there is nothing sexier than honesty. If you don’t like the amuse-bouche, tell him. He could be relieved that you said what’s in his head.
Always be unapologetically yourself. People will love you more for it more than they’ll hate you.
6. Try to be mysterious.
It’s nice to be with the person who are open books, but since everything seems to be given to us, after some time, we lose interest in getting to know them better.
If you give your love interest the impression that you have some secret world that only special people can enter, he will get curious about it.
You wish your guy to be curious about you! Don’t tell him every little thing about your life in the first few meetings.
7. Be friendly to every person.
You don’t need to be Ms. Personality, because that would make you scary and exhausting to be with.
Just make sure you’re courteous to everybody and that you’re not pulling other people to the ground.
If people like you, he’ll automatically begin to like you, too.
If in the end, you find that this step doesn’t work for the guy you’re crushing, at least you’ve got some friends.
8. Let him do some favors for you.
This could be as easy as borrowing his something. Psychologists found out that if you do small favors for somebody, you start feeling warmth toward them.
Men, in particular, will begin to feel that they’re needy and that they’re important to you.
They will want this feeling and, therefore, he thinks that he attracted to you.
9. Try to get closer to him.
Go everywhere he goes—without being annoying to him. Being in close proximity to somebody is possibly the most important step in this list.
If there’s any chance for you to sit beside him, do it. If you’re having a party and everybody is getting rowdy, approach him to take a selfie.
Physical closeness will spark attraction and could lead him to open up his heart.
10. Try to act like you don’t need men.
We’re not saying that you convert into an angry feminist, but avoid being that woman who whines all the time that she’s single.
You can talk about your singlehood over a beer with your other friends, but don’t do it with the guy you like.
Even if he’s interested in you, if he feels like you need a guy to be happy, he’ll hide his true feelings or start to behave in an aloof manner because he’ll assume that you need him anyway.
All men want women who feel complete and are completely okay being alone.
11. Show him to something new.
It could be a new TV show, a new pub in the area, a new food, a new hobby, or a new sport you like.
Some activities like this will give him an endorphin rush, which he will connect with you.
This high feeling will condition him, making him think he’s falling in love with you. If you’re enjoying doing all these things, he better be, anyway!
12. If somebody likes you, make sure he finds out.
Drop some hints that somebody is crazy for you to speed things up.
Men love competition, and if the man of your dreams is taking little strides, the best path for him to amp up into a sprint is by informing him that he has competition.
One sneaky but best way to do this is by letting your friends tease you when he’s around or by letting them tell him accidentally about the other guy.
Yeah, it may seem pathetic, but there’s a study that says that smiling slowly, rather than very quickly, makes you appear very genuine.
Similarly, if you flash a very quick grin, the person might feel like you really don’t mean it.
If you need to attract a man, try to be nice and slow when you smile.
14. Turn down his invitations once in a while.
If you wish to take things to the next level, try to make him feel like your world is not revolving around him.
Turn down some of his invites. Not only will this make him wonder if you’re seeing somebody, but this will also challenge him to do better with whatever it is he’s doing because it might not be working.
In other words, he’ll try to find better ideas to please you.
15. Don’t reply to his msgs too quickly.
This game is known as “Who’s the coolest, most relaxed texter,” and the players are you and him.
This also works on your boyfriend or your husband! If you reply right away, your guy will think that you like him more than he likes you.
In fact, men often get bored because of that. They text you once, and you reply thrice. Where’s the fun in that?
I know it shouldn’t be a game, but when you’re flirting with somebody, you have no other choice but to play.
At least initially. Reply at least an hour after you got his text to keep him on his toes unless you’re both having a texting talk.
Sure, girls don’t always have to make moves when it comes to courting, but if you drop these hints, almost anyone will instantly fall for you. What makes these steps awesome is that your man won’t even suspect that you like him in the first place.
So what are you waiting for? Roll up your sleeves, put on a really good perfume, and start seducing him.
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