Flirting with a guy might seem like a difficult task, but it’s easier than you think! You can flirt from across the room by relying on friendly body language to get his attention. To flirt with him in person, touching, playful teasing, and sincere compliments work well. Flirting via text can be done with compliments and invitations to hang out with him.
♥ Flirting From Across the Room ♥
Make eye contact. Eye contact is a great flirting technique which can be implemented anywhere and at any time, as long as your crush is in sight. While you don’t want it to look like you’re staring deep, lingering eye contact will show him you’re interested in him. It will also be a good indicator of his interest—if he holds the eye contact then he’s probably into you. If a guy looks away he might just be shy. One good trick is to look directly at him until he catches you looking at him. When he does, hold eye contact for a moment before smiling and looking away.
You have the best weapon which is always available, completely free, and can’t be overused—your smile! You should try to flash a genuine smile as often as possible, whether it’s directed at your guy or not. It makes you look approachable and it might actually make you feel happier. Find something to smile about. Think about a happy moment or joke to spark a smile on your face. If you’ve made eye contact with the guy you like, smile at him slowly, letting it spread over your face. If you tend to blush and look down when he’s looking at you, let it happen after the smile and don’t worry — you’ll be irresistible.
Use body language.
Even if you haven’t spoken a word, you can say a great deal using just your body language. Smiling and eye contact is part of this, but there are a few other things you should be kept in mind: Don’t cross your arms. Flip your hair. Play with your jewelry. In order to flirt, you need to be around the object of your affection as often as possible. Make an effort to put yourself in his path, without seeming too obvious. For example, Walk past his desk on your way out the door.
Give yourself a boost of confidence by looking your very best whenever your crush is around. This doesn’t mean tiny skirts, high heels, and lashings of mascara – it just means that you should take some pride in your appearance by being well-groomed and neatly dressed. If you look your best, you’ll feel your best – which is an essential factor for successful flirting!
♥ In Person flirting ♥
Start talking. One of the best ways to move the situation along and flirt more openly is to get involved in a conversation with your crush. Find an opportunity to chat him up about something you have in common, whether it’s school, work, or a recent event. Open with a question. This will show you’re interested in getting to know him, not just interested in talking about yourself. Try to avoid asking questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no”. Transition to talking about him. People love to talk about themselves, so try to get him started on something he’s passionate about – whether it’s music, sport or plans for the future.
Break the touch barrier.
Finding small ways to touch your crush is an obvious signal that you’re flirting, and shows him that you’re willing to make a small level of physical contact. Try doing it in these ways: 1)Touch his forearm lightly while you’re talking. When he makes a funny joke, reach your hand out and touch his arm while you’re laughing. Alternatively, you can do this as a form of playful or genuine consolation. 2) Casually put a hand or elbow on his shoulder. This creates a sense of camaraderie between you and shows him that you feel completely comfortable around him. 3)Straighten his collar. Another sneaky tactic you can use to touch your crush is to tell him that his shirt collar (or tie) is crooked so you can lean in to fix it. Stand squarely in front of him so you’re face to face, then casually brush your fingers against his neck as you adjust his collar.
Draw attention to your body.
Guys are visual creatures, so nothing gets them going like a sneaky flash of flesh here and there. Subtly drawing attention to your body every now and then will get his heart racing and help him to realize how much he likes you. Rub your shoulder. Pretend you have an ache in your shoulder and pull down the neckline of your top, exposing your skin as you massage it. sk if you should get your belly button pierced. Lick your lips. Make him think about kissing you by drawing attention to your lips in front of him.Be careful not to overdo things here – drawing attention to your body can work very well, but only if it’s used in moderation.
Dance with him. Dancing with a guy is a fun way to show him that you’re into him, without being too serious. It could be at a school dance or a nightclub, it doesn’t matter as long as you get some one-on-one time together.
Playfully tease him. Some playful teasing can be a great flirting technique – if used correctly. Teasing can create a sense of intimacy and show the guy that you have a sense of humor. Just be warned – if you give it, you need to be able to take it!
Leave him wanting more. Don’t let the conversation drag on so long that he has time to get bored or distracted. Instead, walk away while he’s still interested so that he can’t wait to see you again.
♥ Flirting Over Text ♥
Once things really get going and you feel more comfortable with your texting, you can start to heat things up a little – dropping not-so-subtle hints that you’re interested in being more than friends. Play it safe at first – there’s no need to be too racy, you just need to give him the idea that you want to be with him. Something cute like “I’m just about to watch a scary movie – wish you were here to stop me from being too scared!”
Don’t be boring. Boring text messages are pointless – texting things like “what’s up?” Try to be unique and interesting – only send a message if you think it’s going to bring a smile to your crush’s face.
Leave some questions hanging. Once you’re in a text conversation, try not to be overly enthusiastic, responding to every single thing in his last message. These kinds of text messages can be confusing and make you seem too eager.
⦁ Text him “accidentally”. If you’re not sure how to get a text conversation going, one good tactic is to text him pretending you think he’s someone else, like you’re best friend. Say something like “Haha, yeah right! So what are you doing this weekend?:)”⦁ Give it a minute or two, then send a second message saying something like “Oops, wrong person, sorry! But what are you doing this weekend? ;)”⦁ This will make it seem like you didn’t intentionally start a conversation, but you’re happy to have one anyway
Picture text. Picture texting can be a fun alternative way to communicate – and also ensures that your crush has a picture of you on his phone.
Don’t send more than two texts in a row without a reply.
The rules of texting dictate that you should receive approximately the same number of texts as you send. This means that if you’re sending your crush 20 messages a day and he’s only responding to about 5 of them, you’re seriously overdoing it.