How to Make a guy Fall in Love with You

You can’t control how he feels about you, but there are some things you can do to get his attention and show him that you’re special.

The more positive you are when you’re around him, the more likely he will start getting interested in you.

Here are some tips, like how to use clothes and body language to make a guy fall in love with you, read on!


♥ Appearance

Try to show him that you care about your appearance and health. By putting time and energy into your physical appearance, you will demonstrate to your guy that you value your looks and good health. You will also feel more confident about yourself if you feel healthy and your confidence is always attractive.

Here are some ways :

  • Stay active by going to the gym & exercise regularly. Don’t skip your workout to spend time with him or Invite him to join you or take a rain check.
  • Keep your hair well clean and styled, and pay attention to your personal hygiene.
  • Put on a little signature scent in the morning or before you go out with him.
  • If you wear makeup, aim for a look flattering but simple; but don’t try to overdo.

Different colors shades and types of hair. Set of different girl


Your best weapon is always available, completely free, and it can’t be overused—your smile!

Try to smile well and often, whether it’s directed at your guy or not. A smile makes you look approachable and it might actually make you happier.


Find something to smile about. If you’re not comfortable, think of a happy moment or joke to spark a smile. If you’ve made eye contact with a guy you love, smile at him slowly, letting it spread over your face.

If you tend to blush and look down when he’s looking at you then let it happen after the smile — you’ll be irresistible.

Eye contact

Try to make frequent eye contact. Making eye contact is the main component and it can also increase his feelings of attraction for you.

Look into his eyes when he is talking to you and don’t be afraid to lock eyes with him even if you are both silents.

If you are too nervous to do that or you don’t think it is appropriate yet, use quick glances to make frequent eye contact with him.

By looking at him for a moment (like for sec) and then looking away, you can show him that you are interested and see if he is interested too.

Use Your Personality


One of the best ways to make a guy fall in love with you is to talk to him about your similar interests, like movies, music, or sports.

The main reason why people feel attracted to each other is due to a sense of connection.

If you have things in common interests with him, emphasize those things in your conversations.

Jolly young woman sending a text lying on a sofa


Try to demonstrate your independence. Being dependent on someone else for your happiness are not attractive qualities.

Instead, you should try to show him that you are an independent, strong woman.

Showing him that you have a great lifestyle and that you don’t need someone else to be happy will intrigue him.

Be kind

Be kind and considerate to others. Being rude is a quick way to make him lose interest in you. Be polite and kind to the guy or other people and show that you are a kind person.

Demonstrating your kind personality will increase his interest in you.

What makes you special

Don’t be afraid to reveal any talents you have that make you special than others.

Letting a guy see what makes you such a catch is another best way to increase his affection for you. This will intrigue him and make him want to get to know you even better.

For example, if you are skilled at playing a musical instrument, look for an opportunity to play in front of him.


Be a positive force

Some people can manage to be negative all by themselves, so they’re drawn to people who focus on the bright side of things.

Instead of focusing on what’s wrong with your life or talking about the people who annoy you, try to emphasize what’s right and good.

Always try to be a positive force in his life. Moreover, be pleasant all the time when you say toward him and avoid gossiping. Stay positive in his presence and aim to be positive in general.

Enticing Him

Maintaining a balance

At the beginning of any relationship, it is important to spend time together. During this time, you are just getting to know each other more. Don’t fight this urge to spend lots of time together when you are just starting out, but know when to pull it back.

Maintain a good balance between spending time with him and spending time on your own or with your other friends.

This strategy may seem little odd, but it will be good for both of you. It will give him some time to think about his feelings for you and it will also give you a chance to think about your feelings about him.

Having some time apart is the best way for two of you to avoid getting bored with each other or taking each other for granted.


Make him feel needed

Doing things to make your guy feel needed may increase his feelings of attraction for you. Asking him to help you with something or even just asking for his advice can make him feel special and important. For example, you can ask him to help you move some furniture in your bedroom.


You can’t force someone to feel attraction towards you. He’s free to choose what he wants, though people can’t always control who they love. If the feelings are not mutual, resist the temptation to punish him for it. Accept that gracefully. If the relationship is meant to be, it will happen naturally; if not, then you’re meant for something better.

Try to avoid using the “girlfriend” term until he has said it first. If you say it too prematurely towards him, he may run and never look back. Even more importantly, avoid all talk of marriage and babies during hang outs––that will definitely scare him away.

What do you think? Would you like to add something? Feel free to leave a comment below….! 

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